From Cave Dweller To Hunter! - Network With Confidence!
Read in 5 min. There is nothing quite so comfortable and secure as sitting in your place of work all day and waiting for business to come in. It's a way of life for many in the professional, business and financial world. After all, it's so much easier than hitting the road in search of new business or cultivating existing clients...
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But in a world of e-commerce and eroding business loyalties, is it really a good idea for partners and managers to simply sit and wait? After all, every day clients drip away. They die, they retire, they sell or merge, they change their advisors or the business fails. If you want to expand and flourish you need a constant transfusion of new business because this is your life-blood.
But if you feel successful and fulfilled, why bother to come out of your cave? On the other hand, if you can cope with more business, there's no excuse not to join the hunt.
Hunting - now called networking - is the fashionable and successful way to find new business. The dictionary definition of networking is: "The activity of a group of people who exchange information, contacts, and experiences for professional or social purposes."
This all sounds rather dull - a bit like the dusty Old Boy Network. Forget it. This is REAL hunting. Spot your quarry, thrill to the chase and develop a killer instinct. 'Too busy' or 'too time consuming' to join the hunt often translates as 'lack of confidence', the root cause of cave dwelling.
But if you accept the need to market, sell and promote, then look at the alternatives. Advertising and PR - a scattergun approach and too expensive. Direct mail - a disappointing 1% uptake and expensive. Cold calling - time consuming and soul destroying.
Anyway, in a small or medium-sized business or a professional partnership there should never be a need for cold calling. Stop for a moment and consider how many people you know. It will run into hundreds - existing clients, other professional contacts, friends, family, people at the sports or social club, committee members you may work with.
And this is just for starters. Pool your resources with all the other key people in your office and you've got a big and valuable database. You don't necessarily want business from them but you can ask them the question: 'Who do you know who may be interested in?.'
Marketing in any median is simply a numbers game ,the more people you meet the better chance you have to
* Tell people what expertise you have
* Find how you can help them
* Learn all sorts of facts about the general world of business
* Become more confident in your human relation skills
* To find people who can become suppliers and centre of influence
The list goes on
If you don't ask the question, the answer will always be NO.
See every invitation that lands on your desk as a business opportunity. Say to yourself: 'Aha, a chance to meet new contacts, to make new sales or increase my fees!' Work the room enthusiastically, your confidence will build, you'll begin to enjoy these events and new business will flow.
Now don't get me wrong, working the room requires the courage of a lion and nerves of steel. If you feel a bit shy and nervous, don't worry. Most people feel exactly the same and only the most accomplished and regular networker will feel at ease.
What's the problem? On all the workshops and training programmes I run, people say the problem is Fear - fear of not knowing what to say, fear of saying the wrong thing or fear of meeting people for the first time. But probe a little deeper and their real fear is fear of rejection.
The well-known international motivational speaker Zig Ziglar says: 'Fear? - False Evidence Appearing Real!' Quite right. How often have you been rejected at a business or social gathering? When was the last time someone turned their back on you, ignored you or rejected your extended hand? No matter how many times I ask this question, the answer is always NEVER.
So take a deep breath, approach someone new, introduce yourself and ask for their name. They will mentally hug you for approaching them as they are probably more nervous than you. Networking is like learning to drive or learning to touch type - it's always a bit uncomfortable at first. But how long does this feeling last? You'll soon feel just as comfortable about networking as you do behind the wheel of your car or at your word processor.
There's a common theme to driving, typing and networking. Practice and a positive attitude make perfect. Ask yourself four questions:
Am I good at what I do?
Do I provide a great service?
Have I got the capacity to take on more?
Do I want more fees or sales?
If you can answer 'yes' to all these questions, then leave your cave and go hunting.
Your thoughts matter - more than you can imagine.
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